170: I Brought a Vibrator into the Delivery Room and Got Fisted During Labor: Elle’s Birth Story Feat. M

In this raw and intimate episode of *Girls Gone Deep*, host Vee welcomes guest Elle to share her candid birth story for her second child, Baby Joy number two. The conversation dives deep into the physical, emotional, and sexual realities of postpartum recovery, including the use of a vibrator for nipple stimulation to induce labor, a midwife-fisted delivery to reposition the baby, and the decision to forgo a C-section due to concerns about infant microbiome health. Elle reflects on her intense labor experience, the emotional toll on her partner Em, and her eventual request for an epidural—something she never thought she’d need. The episode also explores broader themes: the normalization of postpartum exhaustion, the reclamation of sexual intimacy through intentional connection, and the couple’s decision to forgo future pregnancies and pursue a vasectomy. They discuss the cultural and ethical dimensions of circumcision, the growing acceptance of uncircumcised penises, and the importance of bodily autonomy. With humor, vulnerability, and unfiltered honesty, the duo unpack how parenthood reshapes desire, identity, and partnership—while still holding space for joy, kink, and future adventures like sex parties and European travel.