167: Yoni Massage: the Pleasure Spots You're Missing, and How to Find Them feat. Suriya Nikko
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In this deeply insightful episode of Girls Gone Deep, hosts Elle and V welcome intimacy coach and yoni massage expert Suriya Nikko to explore the transformative power of yoni massage as a tool for healing, pleasure, and self-discovery. Suriya shares her personal journey from sexual trauma and dissociation to becoming a leading educator in sacred feminine practices, emphasizing that yoni massage is not just physical but a holistic, spiritual practice that releases trauma, reclaims pleasure, and fosters deep connection. She breaks down the different internal pleasure zones—G-spot, K-spot, P-spot, A-spot, and cervix—explaining how each requires a unique approach: slow rhythm for the K-spot, fiery energy for the cervix, and gentle expansion for the A-spot. The conversation challenges the myth that orgasms must be intense and fast, instead advocating for relaxation, patience, and presence as keys to internal pleasure. Suriya also discusses the importance of timing—avoiding deep trauma work during pregnancy, waiting postpartum, and respecting individual readiness—while highlighting that yoni massage is beneficial at any age, even for women in their 70s. The episode concludes with a powerful message: pleasure is a practice, not a performance, and self-exploration through breath, sensation, and consent is essential for lasting intimacy and well-being.
Internal orgasms require patience and relaxation, not intensity or speed—many women can’t achieve them because they don’t know they’re possible.
Yoni massage is a holistic practice that releases physical, emotional, and energetic tension, not just a sexual act.
Each internal pleasure zone (G-spot, K-spot, P-spot, A-spot, cervix) responds to different techniques—slow rhythm for K-spot, fiery energy for cervix, gentle expansion for A-spot.
Trauma isn’t just from assault—it can stem from daily stressors like horror movies or bad phone calls, which tense the pelvic floor.
Yoni massage is safe and beneficial during pregnancy (as a nurturing, non-trauma-releasing practice) and postpartum, but not during active healing after surgery.
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The Hidden World of Internal Orgasms
“If I've never heard about the possibility of having a cervical orgasm or a G-spot orgasm or a K-spot orgasm and what does it actually look like, I might not have it because I don't even know that this is an option. But once the knowledge is there, that actually can guide into the orgasm itself knowing what to look for.”
What Is a Yoni Massage? Beyond the Physical
“A yoni massage is basically giving the yoni the space and time to release. And also the person who is giving the massage is holding that space to let the person come like anything that wants to come out can come out.”
The Language of Pleasure: How Each Spot Speaks
“The K-spot needs slow, it needs rhythm. If I now try to be too fiery and too passionate with that K-spot, it's not responding at all. And women say, I don't feel anything. Why? I don't feel anything because you don't speak the language of the K-spot.”
Trauma, Tension, and the Pelvic Floor
Suriya explains how everyday stressors—like horror movies or bad phone calls—can tense the pelvic floor, leading to pain, vaginismus, and difficulty with orgasm. She shares how yoni massage helps release accumulated trauma and tension.
Yoni Massage vs. Kegels, Yoni Eggs, and Self-Exploration
Suriya compares yoni massage to Kegel exercises and yoni eggs, cautioning against using eggs during trauma or vaginismus. She emphasizes that relaxation after training is just as important as the exercise itself.
“Taste yourself. This is a whole other conversation. Everyone, thanks for tuning in. We'll catch you on the next episode. Bye. Bye. Taste yourself. This is amazing.”
“I hardly see a yoni massage without tears because in order to go through a really deep orgasm or deep experience, we need to pierce all these layers of ourselves, the physical body... emotional body... mental body... spiritual body.”
“If I've never heard about the possibility of having a cervical orgasm or a G-spot orgasm or a K-spot orgasm and what does it actually look like, I might not have it because I don't even know that this is an option. But once the knowledge is there, that actually can guide into the orgasm itself knowing what to look for.”
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