My Friend & My Ex Are Hooking Up!

In this episode of 'You Up?', hosts Jordana Abraham and Jared Freed dive into the drama surrounding Amanda Batula and West Wilson's sudden public confirmation of a hookup, dissecting the emotional fallout and the problematic 'we're figuring out our feelings' statement. They explore the pain of being in a 'situationship'—a relationship that feels real to one person but not the other—and critique West's mixed signals, especially holding hands and flirting after the breakup. The hosts argue that the statement only deepened the confusion and alienated both fans of Amanda and those who've been betrayed by friends. They also discuss two listener emails: one about being overwhelmed by a man's overly detailed first text, and another from a Seattle woman navigating the 'Seattle freeze' who tried to convince a man to stay by sharing her potential move. The hosts conclude that while honesty about future plans is valid, trying to control the outcome of a new relationship too early is counterproductive. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of personal clarity and letting connections unfold naturally.