Winning the Week Without the Hustle Culture featuring Demir Bentley
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Demir Bentley, a former Wall Street analyst who once worked 100-hour weeks, shares how a near-fatal stress-related illness forced him to reinvent his life—and his approach to productivity. What began as a crisis became the foundation for his book *Winning the Week*, a system that replaces hustle culture with intentional, sustainable planning. He reveals that the real enemy isn’t busywork, but the invisible lies in our calendars—underestimated travel times, unaccounted prep work, and unspoken commitments—that compound into burnout. His breakthrough? A radical calendar interrogation, where he treats time like a financial ledger, auditing every minute for honesty. The result? A 40-hour workweek that actually delivered more than 80 hours of old-style grind. But the deeper transformation came at home: by stepping into leadership not through grand gestures, but through weekly planning huddles that reduce mental load and create emotional safety. He reframes fatherhood as 'being the thermostat'—not reacting to chaos, but actively shaping the family’s emotional climate. For dads raising daughters, he emphasizes cultivating a home filled with fun, freedom, and playful energy, where girls feel safe to grow into their own identities. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence, planning, and purpose.
Replace hustle culture with 'calendar interrogation'—audit every appointment for hidden time costs like prep, travel, and emotional labor.
Do your weekly planning on Friday, not Sunday, to avoid carrying unresolved mental loops into the weekend.
Your brain can’t rest if it’s holding open loops—finish the week with a clear plan to let go of anxiety.
Leadership in modern fatherhood means taking ownership of the family’s schedule, not just your business.
The most powerful role a dad can play is being the 'thermostat'—regulating the family’s emotional energy, not reacting to it.
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The Dad Edge Mission: Raising Leaders of Families
Larry Hagner introduces The Dad Edge movement, a mission to transform fathers into intentional leaders who disrupt the culture of busyness and replace it with purpose, passion, and direction.
From Wall Street to Wellness: Demir’s Wake-Up Call
“I had a sort of, you know, come to Jesus moment where my doctors literally from one week to the next were like, OK, you need to cut your working hours to below 40 hours a week.”
The Lie of the Calendar: Why Your Schedule Is a Dirty Liar
“Your calendar is just a dirty, dirty liar. And so the first step in planning is just to get in there and just make it honest.”
Winning the Week: The 3 Pillars of Radical Time Ownership
“If there's not a single tear streaming down your eye when you're cutting things, you are definitely not cutting enough.”
The Dad Edge Huddle: Planning as Leadership, Not Chore
“We meet each other after the sigh. That’s the moment when you’ve done the hard work and you’re ready to connect.”
“I had a sort of, you know, come to Jesus moment where my doctors literally from one week to the next were like, OK, you need to cut your working hours to below 40 hours a week.”
“Your calendar is just a dirty, dirty liar. And so the first step in planning is just to get in there and just make it honest.”
“If there's not a single tear streaming down your eye when you're cutting things, you are definitely not cutting enough.”
Host
Guest
Demir Bentley
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Larry Hagner
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The Dad Edge
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Carrie
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Wall Street
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Winning the Week
book
Lifehack Method
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Karoshi
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