#484 Sex Positions 2.0, No Acrobatics Required with the Davons
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In this episode of Shameless Sex, hosts Amy and April welcome back repeat guests Alicia and Erwan Davon, renowned Tantra teachers and relationship coaches, to explore 'Sex Positions 2.0'—a refreshingly accessible, comfort-focused evolution of intimate positioning that moves beyond acrobatics and unrealistic porn-inspired acts. The conversation centers on practical, inclusive positions like 'Lazy Days,' 'Doggy with a Bone,' and the 'Two-Headed Monster,' all emphasizing mutual pleasure, connection, and body awareness over physical prowess. The hosts and guests challenge the myth that advanced sex requires strength or flexibility, instead advocating for comfort, communication, and consent as the true foundations of erotic innovation. They also address a listener’s struggle with feeling disconnected and uninitiated in her marriage, offering actionable advice: prioritize authentic desire over obligation, use sex toys to build arousal, practice dirty talk with simple, sensory-based phrases, and leverage tools like the Attuned app to spark connection. The episode closes with a powerful message: transformation begins not with perfect positions, but with courage to try, adapt, and prioritize mutual pleasure and emotional safety.
Comfort is the #1 priority in any sex position—discomfort undermines connection and pleasure.
Mutual pleasurable stimulation (like the 'Two-Headed Monster' or 69) creates a powerful energy circuit and deepens intimacy.
Use sex toys like the Magic Wand to build arousal and overcome performance anxiety.
Dirty talk doesn’t need to be perfect—start with simple, sensory observations like 'Your hands feel so warm.'
The Attuned app offers personalized, research-backed intimacy prompts to help couples reconnect.
…and 3 more takeaways available in PodZeus
The Core Principle: Comfort Over Acrobatics
“The key factor, the common theme through all of the positions is be comfortable. If you're uncomfortable, you're not doing your partner any favors. You're going to translate that discomfort to your partner.”
Introducing Sex Positions 2.0: Realistic & Accessible
Amy and April introduce the concept of 'Sex Positions 2.0'—a focus on intermediate and advanced positions that are achievable for most bodies, not circus-level feats.
The Wall Position & Other Hype Myths
“The wall position is not going to be one of them. So let's talk about sex positions 2.0. And for intermediate folks or expert folks, advanced folks listening or wanting to be an expert, stay tuned because they're about to blow your mind.”
Mutual Pleasurable Stimulation: The Heart of 2.0
“There's a nice circuit of energy that happens between the two people and you kind of feed off each other's energy.”
Overcoming Fear & Building Confidence
“The bottom line is to go toward, you know, responsibly. Right. I'm not saying run into the street on a red light, but go towards things responsibly that are scary.”
“If you're not in it or like you're not a yes, like don't do it or find something else that you actually want to do because you're... creating a dynamic one for your own body and self.”
“The key factor, the common theme through all of the positions is be comfortable. If you're uncomfortable, you're not doing your partner any favors. You're going to translate that discomfort to your partner.”
“The bottom line is to go toward, you know, responsibly. Right. I'm not saying run into the street on a red light, but go towards things responsibly that are scary.”
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