Missing In Munising - The Dark Side
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The third episode of 'Missing in Munising: The Dark Side' dives into the chilling silence surrounding Steve Goings, the husband of missing Starla Goings, after she filed for divorce in July 2023. Host Mike McGuire confronts the growing pattern of evasion—Steve has cut off all contact with his children, Nick and Stephanie, and refuses to speak with investigators despite repeated attempts. A key revelation comes from Nick, who recounts a disturbing Monday text exchange where Steve appeared to be desperately gathering intel about Starla’s whereabouts, describing it as 'word vomit'—a sign of anxiety, not grief. The episode also explores the psychological profile of a control freak, suggesting Steve’s behavior aligns with extreme need for dominance and predictability, especially during a high-stress divorce. A former friend of Steve’s confirms he said the divorce would 'get messy'—a cryptic warning that now feels ominous. Meanwhile, a female family member claims to have overheard Starla discussing a 'boyfriend,' implying infidelity, but the hosts challenge this narrative: if the conversation was so private, why was it overheard? And if Starla was already in the process of leaving, why would that justify abandoning her family? The episode builds toward a critical ground search on May 9, 2026, urging the public to attend and help uncover the truth—because silence, in this case, is not just absence, but a weapon.
Steve Goings stopped communicating with his children after his wife filed for divorce, cutting off contact in August 2023—just weeks before she disappeared.
Nick Livermore describes Steve’s final texts as 'word vomit'—a frantic, information-seeking pattern that suggests anxiety, not innocence.
A former friend confirms Steve said the divorce would 'get messy' in July 2023, a chilling statement now seen as a premonition of violence.
Overhearing a private phone call about a 'boyfriend' does not justify abandoning a missing family member—especially when the relationship was already ending.
The absence of a side of the story is not neutrality; silence in the face of evidence is a form of complicity.
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The Last Message: 'It Will Get Messy'
“The last thing he said in July was that she wanted a divorce and he thought it would get messy.”
Nick’s Final Text Exchange with Steve
“He was just sending text after text of just word vomit, just kind of trying to get any information he could from me.”
The Silence of the Family
The hosts attempt to contact Steve’s relatives, but are met with blocked calls, voicemail dead ends, and one relative who claims there’s 'no side of the story'—a statement that only deepens suspicion.
The 'Boyfriend' Claim and Its Flaws
“If Starla is relaxed enough to have the conversation out in the open, that's because she had already served divorce papers.”
Control Freak Psychology and the Divorce
The episode explores how Steve’s behavior—micromanaging, rigid control, inability to delegate—aligns with obsessive-compulsive traits and a need to dominate a chaotic situation.
“The last thing he said in July was that she wanted a divorce and he thought it would get messy.”
“If Starla is relaxed enough to have the conversation out in the open, that's because she had already served divorce papers.”
“He was just sending text after text of just word vomit, just kind of trying to get any information he could from me.”
Host
Guest
Starla Goings
person
Steve Goings
person
Mike McGuire
person
Nick Livermore
person
Stephanie
person
Garrett
person
16 Mile Lake Fire Hall
place
Alger County Sheriff's Office
organization
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