Matt D in NY - Monday Speaker Series

Matt D., a long-term recovery advocate from New York, delivers a powerful and deeply personal talk in the Monday Speaker Series of The Daily Reprieve, sharing his journey from childhood sexual addiction and compulsive behavior to lasting recovery through Sexaholics Anonymous (SA) and the 12-step program. He traces his struggles back to early childhood, describing how fantasy, masturbation, and a relentless pursuit of self-will led to a life defined by fear, shame, and emotional chaos. Central to his message is the idea that sex addiction is not the root problem, but a symptom of deeper character defects—lying, self-will, fear, and resentment—that must be addressed through rigorous inventory work, prayer, and surrender to a higher power. He emphasizes the transformative power of the 10th and 11th steps, particularly the practice of 'watching and praying'—discerning lust, observing it objectively, and refusing consent—before it gains entry. His talk is both a warning and a beacon of hope, showing that recovery is possible even after decades of struggle. The episode concludes with a dynamic Q&A where Matt offers practical guidance on handling temptation, fear, memory recall, and the critical importance of finding a sponsor and staying connected to the fellowship.