INTERVIEW: Jess & Rome Talk 'Til Death Do We Parent,' Co-Parenting, Life’s Struggles & Lessons +More

The Breakfast Club1h 2mMay 1, 2026

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In this candid episode of The Breakfast Club, Jess Hilarious and Rome engage in a deeply personal conversation about their journey from a tumultuous relationship to a healthy co-parenting dynamic, centered around Jess's new book, 'Tell Death Do We Parent.' The discussion unpacks the emotional toll of infidelity, the lasting impact of childhood trauma—including Rome’s mother wound—and how both have evolved into more intentional, emotionally intelligent fathers. They reflect on moments of pain, including Rome’s controversial decision to bring a new partner to Ashton’s first birthday party, and the ways they’ve worked to protect their son’s well-being despite their past. The conversation also explores the broader challenges of co-parenting with multiple partners, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of healing for both men and women. Ultimately, the episode celebrates growth, accountability, and the possibility of redemption in family relationships.

Key Takeaways
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Healing in co-parenting begins with confronting past pain and choosing to prioritize the child’s well-being over personal grievances.

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Emotional wounds from childhood—especially the absence of a nurturing mother—can shape adult relationships and parenting styles.

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Healthy co-parenting requires setting boundaries, maintaining respect, and avoiding using children as leverage in conflict.

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Men can be emotionally intelligent and deeply involved fathers, even after past mistakes, if they commit to growth and self-awareness.

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The narrative of 'weekend dad' is misleading—fathers often spend more quality time with children than commonly acknowledged.

Chapters
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5 min

Intro and Podcast Teasers

The episode opens with promotional segments for several iHeartRadio podcasts, including The Clifford Show, Learn the Hard Way, Love Trapped, and The Girlfriends, setting the tone for a platform focused on raw, real conversations.

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5 min

Introducing the Book and Rome’s Reaction

When you read the first chapter, it's going to be like I was a dog. Like I did everything during those times when I did it.

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10:00
10 min

The Emotional Weight of the Past

I never believed Ashton wasn't mine. I just think she of all people at that moment, even now, know how to get under my skin.

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20:00
10 min

Why He Didn’t Fight for the Relationship

I overthink and I thank myself out of the relationship. He's not wrong for that. Yeah. Even though we shouldn't make assumptions, he's not right.

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30:00
10 min

The Mother Wound and Its Impact

I constantly see her trying to put Neosporin and all of the things that help treat that mother wound that exists in you.

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High-Impact Quotes
If we didn't have Ashton, I know we would not be together because that wasn't our story, but we would be friends. You know, we would be best friends still.
Jess Hilarious53:22
Viral: 90.0
Give me my kid. Yeah. Give me my kid. That's all I got.
Rome64:49
Viral: 88.0
I constantly see her trying to put Neosporin and all of the things that help treat that mother wound that exists in you.
Charlamagne Tha Guy31:10
Viral: 85.0
Speakers

Hosts

DJ EnvyCharlamagne Tha GuyJess Hilarious

Guest

Rome
Topics Discussed
Co-Parenting95%Mother Wound90%Emotional Healing88%Fatherhood and Identity85%Relationship Trauma80%Parenting Styles75%Accountability in Relationships70%Mental Health and Therapy65%
People & Brands

Jess Hilarious

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120xPositive

Rome

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115xPositive

Ashton

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45xPositive

DJ Envy

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30xNeutral

Charlamagne Tha Guy

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25xNeutral

iHeartRadio

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15xPositive

Clifford Taylor IV

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10xPositive

Apple Podcasts

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10xPositive

The Girlfriends

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5xNeutral

Love Trapped

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5xNeutral

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