Day 112: True Friendship (2026)
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On Day 112 of 'The Bible in a Year' podcast, Fr. Mike Schmitz explores the profound friendship between David and Jonathan in 1 Samuel 20, highlighting their covenant of loyalty, mutual protection, and shared pursuit of virtue. The episode delves into C.S. Lewis’s framework of the four loves—storge (affection), eros (desire), philia (friendship), and agape (selfless love)—emphasizing that true philia, as seen in David and Jonathan, is rare, enduring, and transcends romantic or familial bonds. Fr. Mike contrasts the fleeting nature of eros with the deep, virtuous commitment of philia, which mirrors agape—the divine love exemplified by Christ. He reflects on the loneliness many experience and prays for those who have never known true friendship, affirming that every person belongs to a community of love. The episode closes with a heartfelt call to prayer and connection, rooted in the belief that God’s love unites all people in a shared journey of faith.
True friendship (philia) is rare, deep, and rooted in shared virtue and loyalty—exemplified by David and Jonathan.
While eros (desire) and storge (affection) are natural, philia transcends them as a higher, enduring love that seeks the good of the other.
God’s love (agape) perfects all human loves and is the ultimate model for how we should love one another.
Loneliness is a widespread human experience, and the Church is called to be a community that welcomes and loves those who feel unseen.
Prayer and covenantal commitment—like the oath between David and Jonathan—can sustain relationships through danger and separation.
Introduction to Day 112: David and Jonathan’s Friendship
Fr. Mike introduces the day’s reading from 1 Samuel 20, focusing on the covenantal friendship between David and Jonathan, and previews the exploration of the four types of love.
The Covenant of David and Jonathan
“May the Lord be with you as he has been with my father. If I am still alive, show me the loyal love of the Lord that I may not die and do not cut off your loyalty from my house forever.”
The Four Loves: Storge, Eros, Philia, and Agape
“When it comes to philia, when it comes to true friendship, that happens maybe once or twice in a person's life, if ever.”
The Rarity and Power of True Friendship
“We have something even better. We have this depth of friendship. I'm marrying my best friend today is what all these people want to be saying.”
Prayer for the Lonely and the Call to Belonging
Fr. Mike prays for those who have never known friendship, affirming that every person belongs to the community of faith and that God’s love is the foundation of true connection.
“God so loved the world that he gave his only son that everyone might not perish, but might have eternal life.”
“May the Lord be with you as he has been with my father. If I am still alive, show me the loyal love of the Lord that I may not die and do not cut off your loyalty from my house forever.”
“When it comes to philia, when it comes to true friendship, that happens maybe once or twice in a person's life, if ever.”
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