Am I Being Selfish For Not Helping A Deadbeat Relative?

In this heartfelt 25th-anniversary episode of 'Women & Money,' Suze Orman and Katie Torpey tackle a range of financial topics with their signature blend of wisdom, humor, and vulnerability. The episode opens with a touching reflection on their enduring partnership, celebrating two and a half decades of love and collaboration. The core of the episode centers on a powerful listener question about whether it’s selfish to refuse to financially support a destitute sibling, especially when one has sacrificed personal security to help family. Orman delivers a firm, compassionate answer: no, it’s not selfish—it’s essential to prioritize your own financial health. She emphasizes that women often say 'yes' out of fear of losing love, but true self-love means saying 'no' with clarity and honesty. The hosts also address tax-efficient investing, the dangers of annuities, the myth of 'unincorporated nonprofit associations' as a wealth shield, and the importance of Roth IRAs. Throughout, the message is clear: financial independence is not selfish—it’s necessary for long-term security and peace of mind.