Give Mindblowing Blowjobs with Shameless Sex Hosts Amy Baldwin and April Lampert (Re-Release)
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In this re-released episode of Sex Ed with DB, host DB welcomes Amy Baldwin and April Lampert of the Shameless Sex podcast for an in-depth, humorous, and educational exploration of blowjobs. The conversation dismantles myths around oral sex, emphasizing that pleasure is not exclusive to the receiver and that giving blowjobs can be empowering, enjoyable, and deeply intimate when approached with consent, trust, and enthusiasm. The hosts share personal stories, including trauma from coercive experiences and how they reclaimed agency through self-awareness and pleasure. They discuss the history of the term 'blowjob,' the importance of lube and practice with dildos or vegetables, and debunk the myth that deep throating is essential. Practical tips include using hands as extensions of the mouth, incorporating vibration, and focusing on sensation over performance. The episode also addresses delayed ejaculation, the mental blocks that prevent orgasm, and the power of reverse psychology and mindfulness. A standout segment features a vivid, playful scene-setting for a new way to give a blowjob, emphasizing intention, aesthetics, and connection. The hosts conclude with a sex toy team-building segment, recommending Uber Lube, Tenga Eggs, finger vibes, and vibrating cock rings as game-changers for pleasure. Key takeaways include: 1) Pleasure in blowjobs is for everyone—givers and receivers alike—when consent and authenticity are prioritized; 2) Deep throating is not required for a pleasurable experience; 3) Use lube and practice with toys or vegetables to build confidence and skill; 4) Reverse psychology (e.g., 'don’t come') can help overcome orgasmic blocks; 5) Jaw relaxation and TMJ awareness are crucial for comfort; 6) Enthusiasm and eye contact (even if subtle) significantly enhance the experience; 7) Ask your partner to show you how they masturbate to better understand their preferences; 8) Intentionality—through lighting, positioning, and foreplay—elevates the entire encounter. The episode ends with a joyful, inclusive call to explore pleasure without shame.
Pleasure in blowjobs is for both givers and receivers—consent, trust, and enthusiasm are key.
Deep throating is not necessary; focus on the head, balls, and hands for maximum pleasure.
Use lube (flavored or silicone) and practice with dildos, cucumbers, or zucchinis to build skill.
Reverse psychology ('don’t come') can help overcome orgasmic blocks.
Jaw relaxation and TMJ awareness are essential for comfort during oral sex.
…and 3 more takeaways available in PodZeus
Welcome & Episode Preview: The Science & Soul of Blowjobs
“Blowjobs can be pleasurable to receive and to give, whether it's the pleasure of your partner's pleasure, something you get with the help of a toy or some hands, or you're just a giver.”
Quick & Dirty: Rapid Fire Tips & Myth-Busting
“No, because let's see if we're talking about the so we're talking about homegrown cock, right? Most of the nerve endings are on the head of the cock as and then there are nerve endings on the shaft definitely a lot on the balls but most of your attention and blowjobs are going to be on the head anyways.”
Personal Journeys: Trauma, Consent & Reclaiming Power
“I've taken back the power from my experience, however many years ago that was. And now it's reframed and I really enjoy it.”
The Psychology of Orgasm: Overcoming Blocks & Delayed Ejaculation
“The more I feel this pressure to do this thing that the more difficult it is for me to actually go into that space.”
The Art of the Scene: Setting the Stage for Pleasure
Amy and April walk through a detailed, sensual scenario for giving a blowjob—covering setup, positioning, foreplay, lube, eye contact, and the use of hands and toys. They emphasize intention, aesthetics, and the power of enthusiasm.
“Don't use a carrot and choke on carrot shrapnel, please. But instead try a dildo, a cucumber or a zucchini.”
“It's not about the dick pills. It's about the mind. Your head is your largest sex organ.”
“No, because let's see if we're talking about the so we're talking about homegrown cock, right? Most of the nerve endings are on the head of the cock as and then there are nerve endings on the shaft definitely a lot on the balls but most of your attention and blowjobs are going to be on the head anyways.”
Host
Guests
Amy Baldwin
person
April Lampert
person
DB
person
Shameless Sex
media
Uber Lube
product
Magic Wand
product
Tenga Egg
product
Victorian era
other
Jimmy Jane
brand
Peggy Ornstein
person
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