"How Do I Turn My Gay Son Straight?" r/Relationships

Redditor20mApril 7, 2026

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This powerful episode of Redditor recounts a deeply tragic story from a Reddit post titled 'How Do I Turn My Gay Son Straight?' The original poster (OP), a 26-year-old woman, discovers her husband has been secretly advising his co-worker, Edward, on how to 'fix' his gay 14-year-old son, Jake, behind his wife Louise’s back. The messages reveal disturbing suggestions including punishment, isolation, and covert attempts to 'convert' Jake without his mother’s knowledge. OP confronts her husband after consulting Louise, only to face denial, blame-shifting, and emotional manipulation. The couple eventually divorces, but months later, OP learns that Jake has died by suicide. Louise, devastated and blaming herself, is now pursuing justice and advocating for mental health awareness and LGBTQ+ youth support. The episode ends with a call to action: to prevent such tragedies by fostering open, affirming environments and speaking up against harmful ideologies. The story underscores the devastating consequences of hidden homophobia, the importance of allyship, and the long-term emotional toll on all involved.

Key Takeaways
1

Hidden homophobia in intimate relationships can have life-threatening consequences for LGBTQ+ youth.

2

Supportive families must be vigilant—silence and secrecy from a partner can enable harm.

3

Confronting a partner’s harmful beliefs requires balancing personal safety with moral responsibility.

4

Trauma from such events can lead to long-term mental health struggles, even for bystanders.

5

Advocacy and community action after tragedy can transform grief into meaningful change.

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Chapters
0:00
6 min

The Shocking Revelation

My husband said that if it were his son he'd quote set him straight and mentioned punishing him by taking away privileges and not taking him to sports until he changes his mind.

Highlight
5:30
6 min

Confrontation and Denial

I'm probably not the woman he thought he married when I'm at work.

Highlight
11:00
6 min

The Tragic Aftermath

Jake took his own life, and Louise said she felt responsible for his death and has been really hard on herself.

Highlight
16:30
4 min

Legacy of Loss and Advocacy

Louise, now a close friend of OP, is determined to turn her grief into action. She plans to advocate for LGBTQ+ youth and child mental health, ensuring no other family suffers as she has. The episode ends with a powerful call to prevent future tragedies.

High-Impact Quotes
Jake took his own life, and Louise said she felt responsible for his death and has been really hard on herself.
OP15:29
Viral: 95.0
If it were his son he'd quote set him straight and mentioned punishing him by taking away privileges and not taking him to sports until he changes his mind.
OP's husband (via messages)3:43
Viral: 92.0
I don't think I will ever be able to move on, and part of that is because I feel disgusted at myself for even associating with someone who played a part in this.
OP15:50
Viral: 90.0
Speakers

Host

Redditor
Topics Discussed
LGBTQ+ Youth Mental Health98%Hidden Homophobia in Relationships95%Suicide Prevention and Grief93%Parental Influence on Coming Out90%Marital Trust and Deception88%Post-Traumatic Growth and Advocacy87%Support Systems for LGBTQ+ Families85%Workplace Culture and Toxic Masculinity70%
People & Brands

OP

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42xNeutral

OP's Husband

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38xNegative

Louise

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Edward

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30xNegative

Jake

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28xNegative

Redditor

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12xNeutral

Parents

person

8xPositive

Reddit

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5xNeutral

Therapist

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3xNeutral

Lawyer

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2xNeutral

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