819: What Keeps Attraction Alive (And What Kills It) with Jordan Candlish

In this three-part episode of *Multidimensional with Christina The Channel*, host Christina welcomes relationship coach Jordan Candlish for a transformative exploration of what sustains and destroys attraction in long-term relationships. The conversation begins with Jordan sharing personal experiences from his relationship with his partner Amanda, highlighting how role overload—being both business partner and romantic partner—led to emotional distance and low libido. He emphasizes that lasting attraction thrives on polarity, which requires intentional separation, personal sovereignty, and spiritual alignment. Both guests stress the importance of men having emotional outlets outside the relationship, the dangers of over-identifying with work, and the need for each partner to maintain a deep, independent connection with their inner self or divine source. The discussion evolves into deeper psychological and energetic themes, challenging the illusion of scarcity in love and money, and advocating for inner neutrality, authenticity, and congruence between belief and action. Jordan calls for personal transformation—particularly around character, emotional regulation, and self-mastery—as the foundation for genuine intimacy, while also addressing the need for mutual reverence between masculine and feminine energies. In the final segment, Jordan reflects on the profound impact of connecting with a high-achieving, like-minded community in America, where he observed effortless success and joyful mastery. He expresses gratitude for the podcast’s community, describes his relationship with Christina as meaningful and destined, and looks forward to future collaborations, including bringing Amanda into the circle. The episode closes with a powerful message: true growth comes not from perfection, but from courageous, accountable action and the willingness to be transformed by love and life’s challenges.