Second Date Update: Surf and Turf

Mojo In The Morning11mApril 29, 2026

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The episode centers on a 'Second Date Update' segment where host Julian shares his confusion over being ghosted by Monique after their first date. The conversation unfolds as Monique explains she was uncomfortable with Julian's disclosure that he is attracted to both men and women and is open to polyamorous or group experiences. The hosts explore the tension between personal authenticity and compatibility, emphasizing the importance of upfront communication about relationship preferences. Listeners weigh in with strong opinions, with many expressing discomfort with the idea of dating someone open to both genders, citing concerns about jealousy, trust, and emotional investment. The discussion expands to broader themes of modern dating, evolving relationship norms, and the challenges of navigating identity and desire in public spaces. A separate call from Sarah reveals a disturbing story of a man who pursued her solely because she was pregnant, highlighting how attraction can be based on fetishization rather than genuine connection. The episode closes with promotional segments for several podcasts, including The Clifford Show and Learn the Hard Way.

Key Takeaways
1

Be upfront about your relationship preferences early—especially if you're bi or open to polyamory.

2

What feels like honesty to one person may be a dealbreaker for another; compatibility starts with shared values.

3

Fetishization in dating—especially around pregnancy or gender—can lead to exploitative relationships.

4

Communication is critical: if you're not clear about your intentions, you risk misunderstanding and emotional harm.

5

Many people still struggle with the idea of non-monogamy, even as societal norms evolve.

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Chapters
0:00
2 min

Podcast Promos and Intro

The episode opens with promotional segments for The Clifford Show, Learn the Hard Way, The Girlfriends, and Look Back At It, highlighting their themes and availability on major podcast platforms.

2:20
3 min

Second Date Update: Julian and Monique

I just wasn't interested in that. Wait a second. Okay, so you... Okay, this is interesting...

Highlight
5:00
3 min

The Bi Disclosure Dilemma

I think you have to be so upfront with that and be prepared for people to be like, I'm sure you're a great guy, but no, thank you.

Highlight
8:20
3 min

Listener Reactions and Relationship Boundaries

I'm just not interested in dating somebody who has kids. I'm just like, you're not going to change my mind.

Highlight
10:50
1 min

Sarah’s Story: The Pregnant Fetish

He just wanted pregnant sex. Yes, that was all he wanted. As soon as I had my daughter, he just lost all interest.

Highlight
High-Impact Quotes
He just wanted pregnant sex. Yes, that was all he wanted. As soon as I had my daughter, he just lost all interest.
Sarah13:14
Viral: 85.0
I think you have to be so upfront with that and be prepared for people to be like, I'm sure you're a great guy, but no, thank you.
Mojo in the Morning6:48
Viral: 82.0
I just wasn't interested in that. Wait a second. Okay, so you... Okay, this is interesting...
Monique4:28
Viral: 78.0
Speakers

Host

Mojo in the Morning

Guests

JulianMoniqueKellyJoshSarah
Topics Discussed
bisexuality and dating90%fetishization in dating88%communication in relationships85%identity disclosure82%polyamory and non-monogamy80%trust and jealousy78%dating app dynamics75%emotional boundaries70%
People & Brands

Julian

person

12xNeutral

Mojo in the Morning

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10xNeutral

Monique

person

8xNeutral

iHeartRadio

organization

8xNeutral

Apple Podcasts

organization

8xNeutral

The Clifford Show

media

4xPositive

Clifford Taylor IV

person

4xPositive

Sarah

person

3xNegative

Learn the Hard Way

media

3xPositive

TikTok Podcast Network

organization

2xPositive

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