Second Date Update: Polyamorous

In this episode of Mojo In The Morning, the hosts tackle a listener's dilemma after a seemingly successful second date with Mark, who is polyamorous. Haley, the woman Mark dated, reveals she felt uncomfortable during their date because Mark repeatedly mentioned he was in relationships with two other women, which she found unsettling and confusing. Mark explains he is openly polyamorous and believes in ethical, consensual non-monogamy, but admits he didn’t disclose this upfront on Tinder or during early conversations. The hosts and callers debate the ethics of withholding such a major relationship status until after a few dates, with several callers emphasizing that transparency is essential—especially when bringing others into a relationship. The discussion explores different polyamorous structures, including 'kitchen table' dynamics and solo polyamory, and highlights the importance of clear communication. The episode concludes with a consensus: while polyamory is valid, it must be disclosed early to respect the emotional and relational boundaries of others.