Am I The A**Hole? I've Had Better Sex

Mojo In The Morning13mApril 21, 2026

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AI-Generated Summary

The episode of 'Mojo in the Morning' centers on a listener call from Olivia, who questions whether she's an 'a-hole' for telling her boyfriend that she's had better sex in the past. The hosts and callers explore the emotional and relational implications of this statement, with mixed reactions. While some argue that expressing dissatisfaction with a sex life is valid, the consensus is that referencing past partners—especially by name or implication—can be deeply hurtful and damaging to intimacy. The conversation expands into broader themes of communication, foreplay, emotional connection, and the impact of life stressors on sexual performance. A standout moment comes from Moe, who shares a personal story about discovering his wife’s sex toy, leading to a candid discussion about openness, shame, and redefining intimacy. The episode ultimately emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, constructive feedback, and emotional safety in relationships, rather than comparative statements that can trigger insecurity.

Key Takeaways
1

Avoid comparing your partner’s performance to past partners—this can cause lasting emotional harm.

2

Focus on constructive communication: express needs without judgment, e.g., 'I’d like more foreplay' instead of 'I’ve had better sex.'

3

Life stressors (family drama, parenting, work) can significantly impact sexual desire and performance.

4

Sex toys aren’t inherently negative—openness and inclusion can strengthen intimacy.

5

Vulnerability and emotional safety are more important than perfection in a relationship.

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Chapters
0:00
3 min

Introduction and Podcast Teasers

The episode opens with promotional segments for 'The Clifford Show,' 'Learn the Hard Way,' 'Love Trapped,' and 'The Girlfriends,' setting the tone for candid, relationship-focused content.

3:00
3 min

Listener Question: Am I the A-Hole?

I've had better sex in the past. Both with him and with other people.

Highlight
6:00
4 min

The Impact of Comparisons in Relationships

If Wes ever said to me it was better with this person or this person. Well don't do that. I would think about that.

Highlight
10:00
3 min

Personal Stories and Relationship Insights

I don't care as long as she gets her rocks off and I can do what I want after.

Highlight
High-Impact Quotes
I'm not lying. I'm not lying. Did her purple thingy dinghy turn into another thingy dinghy?
Mojo14:02
Viral: 90.0
If Wes ever said to me it was better with this person or this person. Well don't do that. I would think about that.
Nia6:48
Viral: 88.0
I've had better sex in the past. Both with him and with other people.
Olivia4:24
Viral: 85.0
Speakers

Hosts

MojoBiancaNiaJimmyLisaCrystalAubreyMoe

Guests

OliviaMoe
Topics Discussed
Sexual Communication95%Relationship Comparison90%Sex Toys in Relationships88%Foreplay and Intimacy85%Emotional Safety in Love82%Life Stress and Sex80%Male Vulnerability75%Past Relationships and Present Sex70%
People & Brands

Mojo

person

20xPositive

Olivia

person

15xNeutral

Moe

person

12xPositive

Bianca

person

8xPositive

iHeartRadio

other

8xNeutral

Apple Podcasts

other

8xNeutral

Jimmy

person

5xNeutral

Aubrey

person

4xNeutral

Lisa

person

4xNeutral

Clifford Taylor IV

person

4xPositive

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