Discipling through the years: the young adult era

In the final episode of their four-part series 'Releasing With Roots,' Dave and Dante from The Legacy Dads Podcast conclude their exploration of discipling young adults aged 18 to 25. They reflect on the bittersweet transition from parenting to mentoring, emphasizing that the goal is not to control outcomes but to remain faithful advisors in their children’s lives. Drawing from Scripture—especially 3 John 1:4, Proverbs 22:6, and Philippians 1:6—they affirm that discipleship is a relational journey rooted in grace, prayer, and trust in God’s sovereignty. The hosts guide fathers through practical rhythms of connection: regular but non-intrusive communication, shared spiritual practices, intentional retreats, and asking empowering questions rather than imposing answers. They address the painful reality of young adults questioning or walking away from faith, urging parents to respond with compassion, not panic, and to hold on to hope through Romans 8:38–39. The episode also highlights the mutual growth possible when adult children begin to disciple their parents, and encourages legacy-building beyond biological children through mentorship and spiritual fatherhood. The final challenge is to text a young adult child with a specific affirmation of God’s work in their life and to start or update a prayer journal for them.