Becoming Like Him (Part 1) | Matthew 5:31-37

Learn the Word Radio26mApril 7, 2026

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In this episode of Learn the Word Radio, Pastor Doug McLean continues his exposition of Matthew 5:31-37, focusing on Jesus' teaching about divorce and oaths within the Sermon on the Mount. He emphasizes that Jesus raises the standard of righteousness beyond mere legalistic behavior to the heart, challenging the Pharisaic interpretation that divorce could be justified by a certificate of divorce. Pastor McLean explains that the certificate was not what ended the marriage covenant, but rather sexual infidelity—adultery—was the true breaking point. He clarifies that only death or abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (as noted in Romans 7 and 1 Corinthians 7) can dissolve a marriage covenant, not a legal document. He also addresses the sensitive issue of abuse, urging victims to seek safety and accountability through authorities and church discipline. In the second half, he turns to Jesus' teaching on oaths, arguing that empty vows—swearing by heaven, earth, or one's head—are meaningless and reveal a lack of integrity. True faithfulness is demonstrated not by elaborate oaths, but by living so that 'yes' means yes and 'no' means no. The episode concludes with a call to radical authenticity and holiness, rooted in Christ's imputed righteousness.

Key Takeaways
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Divorce is not ended by a certificate of divorce, but by sexual infidelity; the document only confirms what was already broken.

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Marriage remains intact until death or abandonment by an unbelieving spouse; a legal paper does not dissolve the covenant.

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If you remarry after divorce without sexual immorality as grounds, you are committing adultery in God’s eyes.

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Empty oaths (swearing by heaven, earth, or hair) are from the evil one and reveal a lack of integrity; true faithfulness is shown in consistent truthfulness.

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The standard of righteousness in the kingdom of heaven exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees and is only fulfilled through Christ.

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7 min

The High Standard of Kingdom Righteousness

You have to be born again. Salvation only comes when a person is born again.

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10 min

Divorce: The Heart of the Matter

The piece of paper, the certificate isn't what breaks the marriage. It's the act of unfaithfulness. It's the infidelity that breaks the covenant.

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9 min

Oaths, Truth, and Authenticity

Let your yes be yes and your no be no, for whatever is more than these is from the evil one.

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High-Impact Quotes
The piece of paper, the certificate isn't what breaks the marriage. It's the act of unfaithfulness. It's the infidelity that breaks the covenant.
Pastor Doug McLean13:59
Viral: 90.0
Let your yes be yes and your no be no, for whatever is more than these is from the evil one.
Pastor Doug McLean22:14
Viral: 88.0
You have to be born again. Salvation only comes when a person is born again.
Pastor Doug McLean7:19
Viral: 85.0
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Pastor Doug McLean
Topics Discussed
divorce and marriage95%kingdom righteousness90%heart of the law88%oaths and truthfulness85%forgiveness and new creation80%abuse and safety75%church discipline70%spiritual poverty65%
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