Welcome to the Family: The Antoinetta McKoy Murder

Killer Instinct34mApril 29, 2026

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This episode of Killer Instinct delves into the chilling and disturbing case of Antoinetta McCoy, a 27-year-old aspiring writer from Washington, D.C., whose body was discovered in a shallow grave in Durham, North Carolina, in June 2011. The investigation revealed that Antoinette had moved in with her high school sweetheart, Peter Moses, in 2010, only to be thrust into a bizarre and abusive domestic situation where Peter lived with three women—Lovada Harris, LaRonda Smith, and Vanya Sisk—whom he referred to as his 'sister wives.' Peter, who viewed himself as a prophet and god-like figure, demanded absolute control, and Antoinette’s diary entries revealed escalating fear, manipulation, and violence. After Antoinette confessed she could not bear children—a secret she had kept from Peter—tensions exploded. On November 15, 2010, Peter allegedly orchestrated a brutal beating of Antoinette in the garage, forced her into the master bathroom, and ordered Vanya to shoot her. The body was wrapped in plastic, placed in a trash bag, and buried. Police also discovered a birth certificate for Jaden Higginbottom, Vanya’s young son, who Peter admitted to murdering and burying in the backyard. All four individuals were arrested and convicted, with Peter receiving two life sentences without parole, while the women received lengthy prison terms. The episode ends with the host expressing disbelief and outrage at the extreme delusion, control, and violence that led to Antoinette’s tragic death.

Key Takeaways
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Peter Moses manipulated Antoinette into a polygamous cult-like household under the guise of love, using religious delusion to justify control.

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Antoinette’s diary revealed her fear, isolation, and the psychological abuse she endured, including a near-death experience when Peter fired a gun near her head.

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The motive for the murder appears to be Antoinette’s inability to carry children—a secret she feared Peter would react violently to.

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Peter admitted to murdering Vanya’s four-year-old son, Jaden, to preserve his 'legacy,' highlighting the extreme and irrational nature of his beliefs.

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The case underscores how cult-like dynamics, gendered control, and religious extremism can lead to horrific violence, even within intimate relationships.

Chapters
0:00
5 min

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4:30
5 min

Discovery of the Body and Initial Investigation

The body was wrapped in saran wrap and then put into this large trash bag. Police were actually surprised by how little this woman's body had decomposed because everything was still intact. And they stated that this was due to the plastic bag.

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9:00
9 min

Antoinette’s Background and Relationship with Peter

Antoinette walks into this house, eyes closed, thinks she's about to get the surprise, opens her eyes. There's three other women standing in front of her.

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18:00
12 min

The Cult-Like Household and Psychological Manipulation

Peter would hold sermons in his home where he would preach to these women and they would sit there and listen for hours and hours.

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30:00
15 min

The Breaking Point: The Diary and the Final Confrontation

She wrote about an instance where during a time where all the girls were in an argument, Peter pulled a gun on Antoinette and shot the gun right by her head in an effort to scare her right in front of all the other women.

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High-Impact Quotes
He brought Jaden, four years old, brought Jaden into the garage and shot Jaden and then buried him in his backyard.
Peter Moses (via confession)39:03
Viral: 90.0
All she wanted to do was leave and instead they killed her. They killed her and they also killed or Peter killed Vanya's four-year-old son.
Host40:16
Viral: 88.0
She wrote about an instance where during a time where all the girls were in an argument, Peter pulled a gun on Antoinette and shot the gun right by her head in an effort to scare her right in front of all the other women.
Host29:37
Viral: 85.0
Speakers

Host

Brian
Topics Discussed
cult-like domestic abuse95%polygamy and religious extremism90%murder by group coercion88%psychological control and grooming87%infertility and emotional manipulation85%victim's diary as evidence78%forensic investigation and evidence collection70%true crime podcast storytelling65%
People & Brands

Peter Moses

person

18xNeutral

Antoinetta McCoy

person

12xNegative

Vanya Sisk

person

10xNegative

Mood.com

brand

8xPositive

LaRonda Smith

person

7xNegative

Lovada Harris

person

6xNegative

Killer Instinct

media

5xNeutral

Jaden Higginbottom

person

5xNeutral

Durham Police Department

organization

4xNeutral

Yvonne McCoy

person

4xNeutral

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