How to Get a Guy to REALLY Love You

Get Him Keep Him Podcast11mApril 16, 2026

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In this episode of 'Get Him Keep Him Podcast,' host Sebastian shares a deeply personal story about how his girlfriend transformed his emotional landscape and made him fall in love in a way he never had before. He emphasizes that the key to making a man truly love you isn't physical attraction or sex, but the ability to create a safe emotional space where he feels seen, respected, and encouraged to open up. Drawing from his own journey of trauma healing and emotional growth, Sebastian explains that men—especially high-achieving, emotionally guarded ones—are often starved for authentic emotional intimacy. The real power lies in being the woman who invites vulnerability, models emotional availability, and genuinely admires a man for being emotionally open. He also debunks the myth that sex leads to love, instead positioning emotional connection as the foundation. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to explore the Love Magnet Coaching Program and individual coaching sessions, including hypnosis, to heal love blocks and build lasting relationships.

Key Takeaways
1

Creating a safe emotional space where a man feels accepted is more powerful than physical intimacy in building real love.

2

Men, especially high-achievers, often crave emotional intimacy but are conditioned to suppress it—your role is to invite vulnerability with authenticity.

3

Saying 'I’m more attracted to a man who is emotionally available' can be a game-changing declaration if delivered with honesty.

4

Shared experiences and meaningful memories deepen love by creating emotional anchors in a man’s heart.

5

Healing your own love blocks and emotional fears is essential to attracting and keeping a truly loving partner.

Chapters
0:00
2 min

The Power of Opening a Man's Heart

If you manage to open a man's heart... this man will fall for you. At least, if he has done his trauma healing.

Highlight
2:00
3 min

Why Men Struggle with Emotional Vulnerability

Sebastian explains the cultural conditioning that teaches men to suppress emotions, linking it to higher male suicide rates and emotional avoidance in relationships.

5:00
4 min

How to Be the Woman Who Invites Emotional Intimacy

I'm going to help you to open your heart.

Highlight
9:00
3 min

Debunking the Myth: Sex vs. Love

Through sex you might make him fall in lust with you, but it has nothing to do with making him fall in love with you.

Highlight
12:00
3 min

The Role of Shared Memories and Emotional Connection

Building lasting love requires creating meaningful experiences and memories that a man mentally returns to, reinforcing his emotional bond with you.

High-Impact Quotes
I'm going to help you to open your heart.
Sebastian's girlfriend4:51
Viral: 90.0
Through sex you might make him fall in lust with you, but it has nothing to do with making him fall in love with you.
Sebastian6:24
Viral: 88.0
If you manage to open a man's heart... this man will fall for you. At least, if he has done his trauma healing.
Sebastian0:52
Viral: 85.0
Speakers

Host

Sebastian
Topics Discussed
emotional intimacy95%men's emotional suppression90%creating emotional safety88%love blocks and subconscious patterns85%trauma healing in relationships80%coaching for relationship success78%sex vs. love75%shared experiences and memories70%
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Sebastian

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Love Magnet Coaching Program

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Get Him Keep Him Podcast

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individual coaching sessions

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hypnosis sessions

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iTunes

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Skype

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Zoom

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