Maryland & Indiana: Forbidden Desires, 1878-1889

Foul Play: A Historical True Crime Podcast29mApril 7, 2026

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This episode of Foul Play explores two interconnected true crime cases from 1878 Maryland and 1889 Indiana, both centered on forbidden desires that society could not name. In Pocomoke City, Lily Dewar shot her childhood friend Ella Hearn, who, with a bullet in her head, pleaded, 'I'll marry you'—a moment that exposed a relationship defined by obsessive attachment and coercive control, yet the court sentenced Dewar to a $500 fine and no jail time, reflecting the era’s prioritization of social standing over justice. In Indiana, Reverend William Pettit poisoned his wife Hattie Pettit to marry her wealthy parishioner, Elma Whitehead, who evaded prosecution by invoking the Fifth Amendment and fleeing. Despite overwhelming evidence, including exhumed organs showing strychnine, Pettit died on the day his retrial was granted, and Whitehead was never tried. Both cases reveal how systems of power—class, gender, and secret fraternal networks—protected perpetrators while silencing victims. The episode underscores a recurring theme: when desire defies societal norms, the justice system often fails the victim and shields the abuser. The narrative is framed as part of a larger season-long project—50 states, 50 crimes, 250 years of American history—highlighting how historical injustices were shaped by unspoken taboos. The host, Shane Waters, emphasizes that both women were already 'sentenced' by the world around them: Ella by her lover’s violence, Hattie by her husband’s betrayal. Their final words—'I'll marry you' and 'I want you in the house'—are not declarations of love, but desperate pleas for control in moments of total powerlessness. The episode closes with a haunting reflection on the enduring failure of justice when it comes to women whose desires fall outside acceptable boundaries.

Key Takeaways
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Desire that defied societal norms—especially between women or across class lines—was often met with violence and systemic silence in late 19th-century America.

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The justice system consistently protected perpetrators based on class, gender, and institutional loyalty, while victims were marginalized or ignored.

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In both cases, the victims recognized the danger and spoke up—Ella with a dying plea, Hattie with a medical diagnosis—but their warnings were dismissed.

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Institutional networks like Freemasonry and family wealth enabled cover-ups and delayed justice, demonstrating how power structures operated beyond the law.

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The phrase 'I'll marry you' and 'I want you in the house' are not romantic declarations, but desperate attempts to regain control in abusive relationships.

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Chapters
0:00
1 min

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0:53
4 min

The Shot in the Parlor: The Hearn-Dewar Case Begins

Don't, Lily. Please don't. I'll marry you.

Highlight
4:50
8 min

Maryland, 1878: A Society That Saw, But Could Not Speak

A woman with a bullet in her head was still trying to manage the person who had just shot her.

Highlight
13:00
12 min

Indiana, 1889: The Poisoned Table

She was right. It did not matter.

Highlight
24:30
6 min

The System That Protected the Perpetrator

The trial of William Pettit was marred by institutional bias. Witnesses were injured, the judge was a Freemason, and the system collapsed under its own secrecy. Pettit died on the day his retrial was granted. Elma Whitehead, the co-conspirator, was never tried, evading justice through wealth and evasion.

High-Impact Quotes
The justice system saw both of these women, it heard what happened to them, and in both cases, it decided that the person who hurt them deserved mercy more than the person who was hurt deserved accountability.
Shane Waters31:46
Viral: 95.0
Don't, Lily. Please don't. I'll marry you.
Ella Hearn2:29
Viral: 90.0
A woman with a bullet in her head was still trying to manage the person who had just shot her.
Shane Waters7:54
Viral: 85.0
Speakers

Host

Shane Waters
Topics Discussed
Intimate Partner Violence Between Women95%Coercive Control and Obsessive Attachment90%Forbidden Desire and Social Silence90%Class and Gender in 19th Century Justice85%Institutional Corruption and Fraternal Loyalty80%Poisoning and Medical Complicity75%Exhumation and Forensic Evidence70%The Role of the Press in Shaping Public Memory65%
People & Brands

Ella Hearn

person

18xNegative

William Pettit

person

15xNegative

Lily Dewar

person

14xNeutral

Hattie Pettit

person

12xNegative

Elma Whitehead

person

10xNeutral

Freemasonry

organization

8xNegative

Crawfordsville

place

7xNeutral

Pocomoke City

place

6xNeutral

John Yeager

person

5xNegative

David Meharry

person

4xNeutral

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