Maryland & Indiana: Forbidden Desires, 1878-1889
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This episode of Foul Play explores two interconnected true crime cases from 1878 Maryland and 1889 Indiana, both centered on forbidden desires that society could not name. In Pocomoke City, Lily Dewar shot her childhood friend Ella Hearn, who, with a bullet in her head, pleaded, 'I'll marry you'—a moment that exposed a relationship defined by obsessive attachment and coercive control, yet the court sentenced Dewar to a $500 fine and no jail time, reflecting the era’s prioritization of social standing over justice. In Indiana, Reverend William Pettit poisoned his wife Hattie Pettit to marry her wealthy parishioner, Elma Whitehead, who evaded prosecution by invoking the Fifth Amendment and fleeing. Despite overwhelming evidence, including exhumed organs showing strychnine, Pettit died on the day his retrial was granted, and Whitehead was never tried. Both cases reveal how systems of power—class, gender, and secret fraternal networks—protected perpetrators while silencing victims. The episode underscores a recurring theme: when desire defies societal norms, the justice system often fails the victim and shields the abuser. The narrative is framed as part of a larger season-long project—50 states, 50 crimes, 250 years of American history—highlighting how historical injustices were shaped by unspoken taboos. The host, Shane Waters, emphasizes that both women were already 'sentenced' by the world around them: Ella by her lover’s violence, Hattie by her husband’s betrayal. Their final words—'I'll marry you' and 'I want you in the house'—are not declarations of love, but desperate pleas for control in moments of total powerlessness. The episode closes with a haunting reflection on the enduring failure of justice when it comes to women whose desires fall outside acceptable boundaries.
Desire that defied societal norms—especially between women or across class lines—was often met with violence and systemic silence in late 19th-century America.
The justice system consistently protected perpetrators based on class, gender, and institutional loyalty, while victims were marginalized or ignored.
In both cases, the victims recognized the danger and spoke up—Ella with a dying plea, Hattie with a medical diagnosis—but their warnings were dismissed.
Institutional networks like Freemasonry and family wealth enabled cover-ups and delayed justice, demonstrating how power structures operated beyond the law.
The phrase 'I'll marry you' and 'I want you in the house' are not romantic declarations, but desperate attempts to regain control in abusive relationships.
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The Shot in the Parlor: The Hearn-Dewar Case Begins
“Don't, Lily. Please don't. I'll marry you.”
Maryland, 1878: A Society That Saw, But Could Not Speak
“A woman with a bullet in her head was still trying to manage the person who had just shot her.”
Indiana, 1889: The Poisoned Table
“She was right. It did not matter.”
The System That Protected the Perpetrator
The trial of William Pettit was marred by institutional bias. Witnesses were injured, the judge was a Freemason, and the system collapsed under its own secrecy. Pettit died on the day his retrial was granted. Elma Whitehead, the co-conspirator, was never tried, evading justice through wealth and evasion.
“The justice system saw both of these women, it heard what happened to them, and in both cases, it decided that the person who hurt them deserved mercy more than the person who was hurt deserved accountability.”
“Don't, Lily. Please don't. I'll marry you.”
“A woman with a bullet in her head was still trying to manage the person who had just shot her.”
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Ella Hearn
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William Pettit
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Lily Dewar
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Hattie Pettit
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Elma Whitehead
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Freemasonry
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Crawfordsville
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Pocomoke City
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John Yeager
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David Meharry
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