A Shocking Number of People Regret Their Choice in Partner

Fitzy, Wippa & Kate15mMay 22, 2026

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A startling new study reveals that one in three people in romantic relationships regret their choice of partner, challenging the idealized images often shared on social media. The Fitzy, Wippa & Kate podcast unpacks this data with a mix of humor and insight, exploring why so many stay in relationships they feel they've 'settled' for—especially when the kids have grown and the original reason for staying (the family unit) no longer applies. The conversation pivots on the quiet power of simply showing up: being present, reliable, and consistent, even when passion fades. A personal anecdote about an Uber driver needing urgent access to a restroom becomes a metaphor for empathy and human connection—highlighting that small acts of kindness can redefine relationships and leave lasting impact. The episode ultimately argues that emotional presence matters more than grand gestures in long-term partnerships.

Key Takeaways
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One in three people in relationships regret their partner choice, according to a 4,000-person US survey.

2

Many stay together not out of love, but because they’ve stayed for the kids or out of habit.

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Simply showing up every day—being reliable and present—is more powerful than grand romantic gestures.

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Empathy in small moments (like helping a stranger use a toilet) can create deep human connection.

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The end of the parenting phase is often the best time to reassess a relationship’s viability.

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Chapters
0:00
3 min

The Shocking Regret Study

One in three women regret their choice of partner—this is a love-busting new study.

Highlight
2:30
3 min

Why People Stay in Unhappy Relationships

The conversation explores the psychological and emotional reasons people remain in relationships they feel they've compromised on, especially after children grow up.

5:00
3 min

The Power of Just Showing Up

There's a lot to be said for just turning up. But you know what happens, Kate? For just turning up. Turning up in a relationship.

Highlight
7:30
3 min

The Uber Driver Incident

I said, can you hold on? The trip's only 15 minutes. How much do you need to go to the toilet?

Highlight
10:00
3 min

The Kids Have Left Home – Now What?

The hosts discuss the emotional shift when children become adults, questioning whether staying together for the sake of family is still valid.

High-Impact Quotes
I said, can you hold on? The trip's only 15 minutes. How much do you need to go to the toilet?
Fitzy12:57
Viral: 82.0
There's a lot to be said for just turning up. But you know what happens, Kate? For just turning up. Turning up in a relationship.
Fitzy8:59
Viral: 78.0
He's now a Casanova. He got a job as a Casanova.
Wippa15:16
Viral: 65.0
Speakers

Hosts

FitzyWippaKate
Topics Discussed
showing up in relationships92%relationship regret90%emotional presence over romance88%staying in unhappy relationships85%post-parenting relationship decisions80%social media vs reality in love75%
People & Brands

Kate

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Fitzy

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Wippa

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10xNeutral

Radagji

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8xPositive

Nova

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6xPositive

Uber

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5xNeutral

Mandy

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4xNeutral

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