Not My Circus
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Leah's story on 'Everyone Has an Ex' begins with a seemingly perfect connection: a mature, kind, and adventurous man named Ethan, 12 years her senior, who swept her off her feet with his charm and mysterious allure. What started as a casual, low-pressure relationship quickly deepened, with Leah investing emotionally and romantically—texting daily, planning meetups, and even feeling secure in their bond. But her world unravels when she discovers Ethan is married, with a wife and another serious partner named Chloe, both of whom he was actively involved with while dating her. After a painstaking investigation using fake social media accounts and public profiles, Leah uncovers a web of lies, deception, and emotional manipulation. She confronts Ethan, who denies everything and threatens her with legal action, leaving her paranoid and isolated. Years later, she reconnects with Chloe, who confirms Ethan’s pattern of cheating and reveals he’s now involved with a new woman named Jenna. Leah reaches out to warn Jenna, but ultimately realizes she can’t save everyone—and that her own healing lies in letting go. The episode ends with Leah reflecting on the cost of her obsession, the importance of self-worth, and the need to stop comparing herself to others.
Trust your instincts—when something feels off, it probably is. Red flags like secrecy, inconsistent stories, and emotional manipulation are signs of deeper issues.
Investigating a partner’s lies can consume your life. Leah’s deep dive into Ethan’s life, while understandable, drained her emotionally and mentally.
You don’t owe anyone the truth—especially not a cheater. Leah chose not to expose Ethan, realizing that protecting herself was more important than seeking justice.
The other woman isn’t always the villain. Chloe’s story reveals that Ethan manipulated multiple women, and Leah wasn’t the only one hurt.
Healing isn’t about revenge—it’s about reclaiming your time and self-worth. Leah rebuilt her life through education, career growth, and self-improvement.
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The Illusion of a Perfect Match
“He was telling me about all the travelling he'd done and how just all about the things he'd been doing. And it just sounded so interesting.”
The Slow Unraveling Begins
“I was in shock. I immediately started thinking about every story he'd ever told me about this ex, about how she didn't take a breakup well and she was stalking him.”
The Truth Comes Out
“I was thinking, has everything been a lie? Do I even know this person? He knows a lot about me and I was my true self and I feel like I've been dating a fake.”
The Aftermath and the Fallout
Ethan denies everything, threatens Leah with legal action, and tries to gaslight her. She becomes paranoid, fearing for her job and safety. She documents everything, but eventually realizes she can’t win. She decides to move on, change her life, and rebuild her confidence.
Years Later: The Ripple Effect
“I just have to accept that it is what it is. I can't be trying to explain this to like different women.”
“He will go to whoever will give him a home-cooked meal, a clean house, sex, pay for a holiday. He will just go wherever he could get his needs met.”
“I was thinking, has everything been a lie? Do I even know this person? He knows a lot about me and I was my true self and I feel like I've been dating a fake.”
“I was in shock. I immediately started thinking about every story he'd ever told me about this ex, about how she didn't take a breakup well and she was stalking him.”
Host
Guest
Leah
person
Ethan
person
Chloe
person
Georgia Love
person
Mamma Mia
brand
Jenna
person
Bed Threads
brand
But Are You Happy?
media
Unleashed
media
Salami
person
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