Can one bad apple ruin your team?

Eat Sleep Work Repeat - better workplace culture47mMay 7, 2026

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In this episode of Eat Sleep Work Repeat, host Bruce Daisley explores the science of human synchrony and its profound implications for workplace culture, drawing heavily from journalist Kate Murphy's book *Why We Click*. The conversation centers on the powerful, often invisible influence individuals have on team dynamics—both positive and negative. Daisley and Murphy discuss the 'bad apple' effect, where a single negative team member can drastically undermine group morale and performance, even without being consciously recognized by others. Yet, the episode offers hope through the 'good apple' phenomenon: one person with strong emotional presence and connection can counteract toxic energy by building bridges across the team. The discussion also challenges the assumption that remote work is sufficient for deep connection, arguing that face-to-face interaction is essential for true synchrony—measurable through mirrored heart rates, brainwaves, and body language. Daisley and Murphy advocate for intentional design of meetings, including shorter durations with deliberate interstitial time for reconnection, and suggest audio-only calls as a more effective alternative to video to reduce cognitive load and enhance empathy. Ultimately, the episode urges leaders and team members alike to become more aware of their emotional 'effective presence'—how they make others feel—and to cultivate environments where genuine human connection can thrive.

Key Takeaways
1

A single 'bad apple' can hijack a team's energy and performance, often without anyone realizing it.

2

True team synchrony—mirrored heart rates, brainwaves, and body language—requires physical presence.

3

Audio-only calls are more effective than video for deep connection due to reduced cognitive load and visual artifacts.

4

Leaders should intentionally design meeting rhythms with interstitial time to reset and reconnect.

5

Your 'effective presence'—how you make others feel—is as influential as your personality.

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Chapters
0:00
5 min

Introducing the Power of Human Synchrony

Bruce Daisley introduces Kate Murphy's book *Why We Click*, highlighting its exploration of interpersonal synchrony and the science behind how people connect. He sets the stage by acknowledging the book's controversial claim that true connection requires physical presence.

5:00
10 min

The Science of Synchrony: Mirror Neurons and Neural Sync

It's kind of like if you think about it as your spidey sense that allows you to pretty quickly, in less than 30 seconds, be able to distinguish friend from foe and also whether someone is sexually compatible.

Highlight
15:00
15 min

The Bad Apple Effect: How One Negative Person Can Ruin a Team

No one in the teams realized it was happening as it was happening... Once it was pointed out, they thought, oh yeah, and certainly when they saw the videos, it was just incredible how much they embodied this person.

Highlight
30:00
15 min

The Good Apple: Counteracting Toxic Energy with Connection

It was almost like his signal was stronger than the bad apple's signal, and drowned it out or really sidelined the bad apple.

Highlight
45:00
15 min

Designing Meetings for Connection: The Power of Interstitial Time

Bruce and Kate discuss practical ways to foster synchrony in hybrid work, including scheduling 45-minute meetings with 15-minute gaps for emotional reset and prioritizing authentic, non-work-related chit-chat to rebuild connection.

High-Impact Quotes
Zoom fatigue is real... your brain is like scrambling to kind of sync with this faulty information. And that's where you get off a Zoom call, and I don't think I've ever seen somebody get off a Zoom call, they rip the headset off, and they're like, you know, when it's over.
Kate Murphy36:39
Viral: 92.0
No one in the teams realized it was happening as it was happening... Once it was pointed out, they thought, oh yeah, and certainly when they saw the videos, it was just incredible how much they embodied this person.
Kate Murphy19:04
Viral: 90.0
Left to our own devices, we typically choose our affiliations based on how others make us feel.
Noah Eisencraft41:55
Viral: 88.0
Speakers

Host

Bruce Daisley

Guest

Kate Murphy
Topics Discussed
Human Synchrony95%Bad Apple Effect90%Effective Presence88%Workplace Connection85%Audio vs Video Communication85%Emotional Regulation in Leadership82%Remote Work Challenges80%Meeting Design75%
People & Brands

Kate Murphy

person

25xPositive

Bruce Daisley

person

15xNeutral

Why We Click

book

12xPositive

Zoom

brand

10xNegative

Noah Eisencraft

person

4xNeutral

University of Washington

organization

3xNeutral

Danny Meyer

person

2xPositive

Microsoft

brand

1xNeutral

New York Times

media

1xPositive

The Wall Street Journal

media

1xPositive

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