S27E119: Love on Pause: Alissa DeConde vs. "Remy" Cabell
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In this emotionally charged episode of Divorce Court, Alissa DeConde confronts her fiancée, Remy Cabell, over deepening doubts about their relationship, citing red flags including alleged infidelity, excessive dog ownership, financial disagreements over auction pallets, and suspicious social media interactions. DeConde, who moved from Minnesota to Indiana to be with Cabell, expresses fear that the relationship has become a 'horror movie' rather than a love story, prompting her to demand a lie detector test to settle the truth. Cabell, deeply committed and loving, defends her actions—rescuing dogs, flipping auctions, and maintaining friendships with past partners—while asserting her loyalty. The judge, recognizing the emotional stakes, calls in a certified polygraph examiner, John Yarbrough, who administers three key questions: whether Cabell pursued Ashley romantically, maintained a romantic relationship with her ex, or had sexual contact with anyone else. The results reveal Cabell was truthful on all counts, providing a powerful validation of her integrity. The judge uses this moment to urge both women to rebuild trust, acknowledge their emotional wounds, and commit to being a united team for the sake of their blended family of five children. The episode concludes with DeConde offering a heartfelt apology, signaling a potential turning point in their relationship.
Trust is built through transparency and accountability, not just proof—emotional safety matters as much as factual evidence.
Compromise is essential in blended families: setting clear boundaries (e.g., number of pets, spending limits) prevents long-term conflict.
Past trauma can fuel present insecurity—acknowledging it is the first step toward healing.
Polygraph results can provide clarity, but lasting resolution requires emotional honesty and mutual effort.
Love isn't just about grand gestures—it's about daily choices to prioritize your partner and family.
A Love Story Turned Horror
“Ms. DeConde says her relationship was supposed to be a love story, but control, distance and doubt have her thinking it's more of a horror movie.”
The Road to Engagement: TikTok to Wedding Plans
DeConde recounts how she and Cabell met on TikTok, the 10-hour drive to Indiana, and the romantic Valentine’s Day proposal involving a burning cake and a ring. The judge acknowledges the sweetness of the moment but notes the growing cracks beneath the surface.
The Dog Dilemma: Love vs. Chaos
“You all cannot be in the same house. That's the truth. This has been something I've been doing since I was a child.”
Auctions, Money, and Misunderstandings
“If you have the time, energy and resources to search for those buyers, you will sell whatever it is that is in the palette.”
The Lie Detector Test: Truth Revealed
“The polygraph examination revealed she was being truthful. Oh, you got Mr. Yarbrough here smiling. I told you! I mean, the expert is not supposed to be smiling.”
“The polygraph examination revealed she was being truthful. Oh, you got Mr. Yarbrough here smiling. I told you! I mean, the expert is not supposed to be smiling.”
“I am so sorry. Y'all love you so much. I am so sorry. I love you so much. Oh, please get around! Done.”
“Ms. DeConde says her relationship was supposed to be a love story, but control, distance and doubt have her thinking it's more of a horror movie.”
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The Honorable Judge
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Remy Cabell
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Alissa DeConde
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Pallets
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John Yarbrough
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Ashley
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Indiana
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Minnesota
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