Give Her Good Sex & Fun Times To Avoid Blue Balls

Coach Corey Wayne addresses a listener's struggle with rekindling a relationship after multiple breakups and a recent loss in the woman's family. The man, who has been following Corey's 'Seven Principles to Get an Ex Back' and '3% Man' teachings, finds himself stuck in a cycle of emotional availability, acting as a therapist rather than a confident, sexually assertive partner. Corey critiques the man for being too compliant, failing to create opportunities for sex, and instead allowing the woman to set the terms—leading to a 'blue balls' situation where emotional connection is prioritized over physical intimacy. The core message is that men must lead with strength, create romantic, intimate settings (like dinner at home), and focus on making sex enjoyable and memorable, not just providing emotional support. Corey emphasizes that during grief, a man’s role is to be an escape—fun, playful, and sexually engaging—not a counselor. The episode underscores the importance of applying principles consistently, not just reading them, and warns that failing to do so leads to emotional disconnection and lost opportunities.