7 Stages of Sleep With Me

In this episode of Sleep With Me, host Scoots and guest Brad Braderson of the Boredom Institute explore the 'Seven Stages of Sleep With Me'—a humorous, self-aware framework for how listeners experience the podcast. The stages range from the initial 'putrid' or 'compost' reaction (a visceral, often negative first impression) to skepticism ('geese stage'), disbelief ('fi criminy'), active negotiation ('horse whisperer midwife'), emotional attachment ('low thing'), longing ('if only'), and finally, profound recognition ('I had no idea I was always looking for this'). The episode blends absurdity with deep empathy, using whimsical metaphors and meta-commentary to reflect on the unique, nonlinear journey of becoming a loyal listener. Throughout, Scoots emphasizes the importance of listener support, framing it not as a transaction but as a shared act of care that keeps the show alive. The episode concludes with heartfelt thank-yous to supporters and a recurring call to action: sign up at sleepwithmepodcast.com/slash-plus to ensure the show continues. Key takeaways include: (1) The first impression of Sleep With Me is often jarring—'putrid' or 'compost-like'—but this is a normal, even necessary, part of the journey; (2) Skepticism and disbelief are valid, shared experiences; (3) The show’s value emerges not through immediate sleep, but through repeated listening and emotional resonance; (4) Listener support is not optional—it’s essential for the show’s survival; (5) The most powerful moment comes when a listener realizes the show was exactly what they didn’t know they needed. These insights are delivered with the show’s signature blend of absurdity, warmth, and vulnerability.