Armchair Anonymous: Scams II

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard56mApril 17, 2026

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In this gripping episode of Armchair Anonymous, Dax Shepard and Lily Padman dive into three harrowing scam stories that expose the vulnerability of trust in personal and digital relationships. The first story comes from Brie, who, during the pandemic, fell victim to a sophisticated email scam while planning a major home remodel. A fake contractor, impersonating a real one through hacked emails, convinced her to pay a 50% materials deposit—$100,000—before vanishing. Despite the emotional devastation and financial loss, Brie found solace in sharing her story, emphasizing the importance of verifying contractors in person and avoiding over-reliance on email. Leah recounts being scammed by a newborn photographer she found through a family recommendation. After paying in full via Zelle, the photographer never showed up, and upon investigation, Leah discovered the woman had abandoned her studio and was no longer in town. The scam extended to other clients, including brides who never received wedding photos. Leah also shares her struggle with severe postpartum depression and anxiety, crediting the Armchair Expert podcast as a lifeline during her darkest days. Finally, a young man from Hoboken, New Jersey, shares how he was blackmailed on Snapchat after sending a shirtless photo—his only mistake was not realizing the app’s screenshot notification could be bypassed. He was extorted for $700, then $1,200, but after reporting the account and contacting his bank, he recovered the initial payment. The episode closes with Petrina, a woman from Brisbane, Australia, who was scammed by a man she dated after a breakup. He stole her car, furniture, and family heirlooms, including her grandfather’s handmade boat, while pretending to care for her and her child. He was recently released from prison and had been scamming multiple women using fake identities. Despite the trauma, Petrina rebuilt her life and found strength in independence and therapy.

Key Takeaways
1

Always verify contractors in person and avoid relying solely on email communication, especially for large deposits.

2

Be wary of online recommendations—verify credentials and check for reviews before paying in advance.

3

Never send intimate photos online, especially on platforms that claim to auto-delete content—screenshot detection can be bypassed.

4

If you’re scammed, report the account immediately, contact your bank, and gather evidence—your bank may help recover funds.

5

Scammers often target vulnerable moments, like postpartum life or emotional transitions—trust your gut when something feels off.

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Chapters
0:00
18 min

The Home Remodel Scam That Stole a Dream

I think at that point, I knew. I'm also so confused because you were seeing them face to face. You were talking about the fact that they had submitted a bid. So now the question is who sent the email, I guess?

Highlight
18:00
18 min

The Newborn Photographer Who Vanished

I was diagnosed with postpartum depression and anxiety really, really severe, really, really awful time for me. And I can't believe I'm talking to you guys.

Highlight
36:00
18 min

The Snapchat Blackmail Trap

I'm like, what the hell did I just get into? I'm like, I have a kickball game in 30 minutes.

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54:00
18 min

The Ex-Convict Who Stole a Life

He was literally fresh out of prison straight on the dating sites to repeat his pattern.

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1:12:00
22 min

The Aftermath: Healing and Hope

The episode closes with reflections on the emotional toll of scams and the resilience of survivors. Dax and Lily emphasize that while scams are cruel, they can lead to growth, self-reliance, and deeper empathy. Petrina shares how the trauma shaped her independence, and Leah expresses gratitude for the podcast that helped her through her darkest days.

High-Impact Quotes
It does get better. That is my biggest message. That is the problem when you're in it is you believe this is the rest of your life.
Leah30:09
Viral: 92.0
I was diagnosed with postpartum depression and anxiety really, really severe, really, really awful time for me. And I can't believe I'm talking to you guys.
Leah29:01
Viral: 90.0
You're never having a great time and go, oh, fuck, I bet I'm going to feel elated for the rest of my life. You know damn well you're not going to feel elated and the same is true. On the other side.
Dax Shepard30:18
Viral: 88.0
Speakers

Hosts

Dax ShepardLily Padman

Guests

BrieLeahBrianPetrina
Topics Discussed
Online Scams95%Financial Fraud92%Trust and Deception90%Emotional Recovery88%Relationship Scams87%Postpartum Mental Health85%Parental Vulnerability82%Digital Privacy80%
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Brie

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Brian

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Armchair Expert

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Dax Shepard

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Lily Padman

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Armchair Anonymous

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Police

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