Acharei Mot Kedoshim - Up To Me

A Torah State Of Mind29mApril 24, 2026

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The podcast episode 'Acharei Mot Kedoshim - Up To Me' delivers a powerful call to personal responsibility rooted in the Torah's prohibition of lifnei ver — placing a stumbling block before the blind. The host, drawing from Rambam and the Shulchan Aruch, reframes this mitzvah not just as avoiding literal traps, but as a profound ethical mandate: we are accountable for the consequences of our words, actions, and inactions, even when we don’t directly cause harm. Through vivid examples — from offering bad advice to a struggling person, to covering a table with plastic in a synagogue to prevent bugs from contaminating food — the speaker illustrates how our choices create ripple effects. He challenges listeners to stop saying 'it’s not my problem' and instead ask, 'What can I do?' The episode culminates in a transformative reimagining of community life: when one person steps forward, even in small ways — like starting a kids' minyan or organizing prizes — they ignite collective change. The message is clear: true responsibility isn’t about perfection, but about presence. If we all acted as if the buck stops with us, the community would be transformed. The final quote from the Vilna Gaon — that silence can be as deadly as violence — drives home the urgency: to remain passive in the face of suffering is itself a moral failure.

Key Takeaways
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You are responsible for the consequences of your actions, even if you didn’t directly cause harm — this is the essence of lifnei ver.

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Offering bad advice to someone in crisis is a form of lifnei ver, even if they have free will to choose.

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Covering a table with plastic in a synagogue isn't just cleanliness — it's preventing someone from accidentally eating a bug, making it your responsibility.

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If you see a problem and do nothing, you are complicit — silence can be as deadly as action.

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One person standing up can shift a group’s behavior — the power of collective action starts with a single voice.

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The Mitzvah of Lifnei Ver: Beyond Literal Traps

The halacha says that if a person has teenage children, says the Shulchan Aruch. You hit your teenage son because you wanted to be, you wanted to do better. You didn't like what he brought home from school a report card. You don't like who he's hanging out with. You hit him. Says the Shulchan Aruch as a teenager, the kid might be angry enough that he hits you back. We know that even if your educational methodology is flawed, it's a bad thing for a person to discipline their kids by hitting them, right? If a person hits their father, if a person hits his father or mother, carries the worst punishment. So what did you cause him to do by hitting him? You caused him to hit you back. Says the Shulchan Aruch, that case is a case of Lifnei Ver.

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Lifnei Ver in Everyday Life: Advice, Alcohol, and Shabbat

You took a guy who's in a difficult situation and you charted him a way out, which is going to cause them to do a crime. That's lifnei ver. You already created a situation for this person where you put a stumbling block in front of a blind man. You caused someone to make a mistake.

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Responsibility in the Nexus of Community Life

If the guy is eating in his own house, that's his own response. But here the shul is giving him something. It's our responsibility to make sure that what we're giving him is as clean and as kosher as possible.

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The Power of One: Small Actions, Big Change

If I have to fight for Kol Ram to have the Kohanim by myself, Rabbi! If three people say hey, we should do it. Three people. That's enough. It's a crazy thing to realize, the power of people standing up for something together.

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You took a guy who's in a difficult situation and you charted him a way out, which is going to cause them to do a crime. That's lifnei aver. You already created a situation for this person where you put a stumbling block in front of a blind man. You caused someone to make a mistake.
Host5:37
Viral: 80.0
If the guy is eating in his own house, that's his own response. But here the shul is giving him something. It's our responsibility to make sure that what we're giving him is as clean and as kosher as possible.
Host14:04
Viral: 78.0
If I have to fight for Kol Ram to have the Kohanim by myself, Rabbi! If three people say hey, we should do it. Three people. That's enough. It's a crazy thing to realize, the power of people standing up for something together.
Host24:08
Viral: 75.0
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