Post Mortem | The Love Bombing of Gloria Choi

48 Hours26mMay 5, 2026

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The episode 'Post Mortem | The Love Bombing of Gloria Choi' examines the tragic murder of Gloria Choi, a devoted single mother and hotel manager, by her ex-boyfriend Billy Rickman in Lakewood, Washington, in January 2022. Despite multiple warnings and documented incidents of stalking and harassment—including tire slashing, unauthorized tracking via an Apple AirTag, and repeated violations of a no-contact order—law enforcement responses were inconsistent and inadequate. Gloria, who had been love-bombed by Rickman early in their relationship, eventually recognized his manipulative and abusive behavior and tried to end the relationship. She meticulously documented every violation, but her seven-page report was never reviewed by prosecutors until after her death. Experts, including former police academy instructor Russ Hicks, criticized the Lakewood Police Department for failing to follow domestic violence protocols, such as issuing a Bolo alert or responding in person. The episode highlights systemic failures in the justice system, particularly in protecting victims of domestic violence. Rickman was eventually captured after a four-day manhunt, aided by a retired corrections officer who recognized him and delayed police arrival to ensure safe capture. He was convicted of aggravated first-degree murder and sentenced to life without parole. Gloria’s family has filed a wrongful death lawsuit, arguing the tragedy was preventable. Her son, now living with relatives in another state, is supported by her close circle, including her friend Brianna, who credits Gloria with transforming her life. The episode serves as a powerful warning about the dangers of romantic manipulation and institutional neglect.

Key Takeaways
1

Love bombing—intense, over-the-top affection early in a relationship—can mask underlying manipulation and control, making it harder for victims to recognize danger.

2

Documenting abuse is critical, but law enforcement must actively respond to and act on victim-provided evidence, not treat it as passive paperwork.

3

Police departments must follow standardized domestic violence protocols, including issuing Bolo alerts and responding in person, especially when there is a pattern of escalating behavior.

4

Victims of domestic violence are often blamed or dismissed, even when they take proactive steps to protect themselves—systemic failure can be fatal.

5

Support systems, like trusted friends and family, can be life-saving; Gloria’s friend Brianna’s story illustrates the transformative power of believing in someone.

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Chapters
0:00
1 min

Introduction: The Urgency of Early Action

The episode begins with a promotional message about AI-driven startup growth, setting a tone of urgency and speed, which contrasts with the slow, fatal response in Gloria Choi's case.

0:40
1 min

Gloria Choi: A Life Cut Short

Host Anne-Marie Green introduces Gloria Choi, a hardworking single mother and hotel manager, whose life was tragically ended by her ex-boyfriend Billy Rickman after a pattern of abuse and stalking.

1:40
3 min

The Love Bombing and Early Red Flags

The episode details how Rickman used love bombing—intense affection and attention—to manipulate Gloria, while also revealing early signs of abuse, including jealousy, controlling behavior, and financial dependency.

5:00
5 min

Escalating Stalking and Police Inaction

The number one priority is to show up, secure the scene. You cannot do that by phone.

Highlight
10:00
5 min

The Seven-Page Document and Systemic Failure

She really did document everything... the prosecutors never even saw it.

Highlight
High-Impact Quotes
Her last words are oma, oma or uma. And that is the word for mother, mom in Korean.
Prosecutor Greg Greer15:09
Viral: 90.0
The number one priority is to show up, secure the scene. You cannot do that by phone.
Russ Hicks13:07
Viral: 85.0
She really did document everything... the prosecutors never even saw it.
Natalie Morales10:15
Viral: 80.0
Speakers

Host

Anne-Marie Green

Guest

Natalie Morales
Topics Discussed
Love Bombing95%Domestic Violence and Stalking90%Police Response to Domestic Abuse88%Systemic Failures in the Justice System85%Victim Documentation and Evidence80%Trauma and Recovery75%Wrongful Death Lawsuits70%The Role of Community and Support65%
People & Brands

Gloria Choi

person

45xPositive

Billy Rickman

person

38xNeutral

Lakewood Police Department

organization

18xNeutral

Natalie Morales

person

15xPositive

Brianna

person

12xPositive

Anne-Marie Green

person

12xPositive

Greg Greer

person

10xPositive

Megan Driscoll

person

10xPositive

Russ Hicks

person

8xPositive

Aja Huall

person

6xPositive

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